Sonder | Toi et Moi Diamond Ring
Sonder | Toi et Moi Diamond Ring
Toi et Moi diamond ring - Two pear diamond ring with side stones - made to order

Sonder | Toi et Moi Diamond Ring

$4,900.00
$4,900.00
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Gold: 14K

Diamonds: Lab-grown Diamonds

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Designed Around Your Story

One-of-a-kind, just like the moment behind it.


The most meaningful pieces I've ever created started with a single message. Sometimes a clear vision, sometimes just a feeling.

From the first sketch to the final polish, I design and craft every piece by hand in my studio, shaping gold and stones into something that could only belong to you.

Whether it's the ring you've been imagining for years or a moment you want to hold onto forever, I'd love to hear what you're dreaming of and bring it to life with you.

Sonder | Toi et Moi Diamond Ring

Toi et Moi FAQs

What is a toi et moi engagement ring?
A toi et moi ("you and me") ring sets two gemstones side by side instead of a single center stone, symbolizing two individuals joined as equals - a format with roots as far back as Napoleon's proposal to Josephine.

Is Sonder a good alternative to a traditional solitaire engagement ring?
Yes. Sonder keeps the diamond-forward presence of a classic engagement ring while replacing the single center stone with two asymmetric pear-cut diamonds, for a distinct but still bridal silhouette.

What gold colors is the Sonder ring available in?
Sonder is made to order in 14K or 18K gold, in yellow, white, or rose gold.

Can the diamonds on Sonder be customized?
Yes! Stone size, shape, and cut can be adjusted upon request for a fully personalized engagement ring.

Inquire about bespoke

How long does it take to receive a made-to-order Sonder ring?
Each ring is made to order in your ring size and gold color. Current production timelines depend on your customization and are available upon inquiry.

Specifications

Materials & Details

  • Solid gold (14K / 18K)
  • Two pear-cut natural diamonds, prong-set (IGI/CGL certified)
  • Pavé diamond accent along one stone
  • Total diamond carat: 3 Ct

Sizing & Fit

  • Made to order
  • Custom sizing available

Customization

  • Stone size, cut, and gold color can be adjusted upon request

Description

The Sonder engagement ring holds two pear-cut diamonds side by side, each catching light at its own angle, meeting at a single point on the hand. Cast in solid gold, the two stones sit close and unmatched in scale - never mirrored, never identical.

The imbalance is deliberate: one diamond larger than the other, the way two people never arrive at the same place at the same time.

A line of pavé diamonds anchors the smaller stone, set in fine claw prongs that let the gold fall back behind the light.

What Makes This Piece Special?

Shipping & Packing

SHIPPING

I offer free worldwide express shipping on orders over 450$.
Items are shipped with insured FedEx International Priority, arriving 3-5 business days at your doorstep.
* Some locations I cannot ship to - Please check with me in advance if you are not sure.



✧ For US Customers ✧

Due to recent changes in U.S. import regulations, local duties or taxes may apply upon delivery.

If you prefer, I can also arrange for the duties and taxes to be paid in advance (DDP), helping avoid customs delays and making delivery even smoother.

Simply reply to your order confirmation email, and I'll send you a secure payment link before shipment.

For more information, please visit my
US Shipping - Duties & Delivery Options



✧ For orders within Israel ✧

VAT is automatically added at checkout

PACKING

Your jewelry will be packed securely for shipment.
A receipt will be included, which references your order number and other order details.
Your jewelry will come give-ready in a jewelry box with a paper bag.

GIFTING

Your order will arrive gift-ready in a jewelry box with a gift bag, ready to be gifted.

Small details that change everything.
Discover the full gifting experience

Sizing

Not sure about your size?

Find it here - Use this Size Guide

For Rings:

Offered sizes are 4-9 US/CA (EU Circumference 46.8 - 59.5 mm).

Other ring sizes are also available upon request.

Still need help?
I'm here to help you find the right size!

Prodution Time

All designs are made to order and can be customized to your preferences.

The processing time is 2-3 weeks.

Custom designs and special orders take 3-6 weeks to create and ship (depending on the item).


If you have a due date or want to be sure it meets your schedule, please check with me first before placing your order.

FAQs

What is a toi et moi engagement ring?
A toi et moi ("you and me") ring sets two gemstones side by side instead of a single center stone, symbolizing two individuals joined as equals - a format with roots as far back as Napoleon's proposal to Josephine.

Is Sonder a good alternative to a traditional solitaire engagement ring?
Yes. Sonder keeps the diamond-forward presence of a classic engagement ring while replacing the single center stone with two asymmetric pear-cut diamonds, for a distinct but still bridal silhouette.

What gold colors is the Sonder ring available in?
Sonder is made to order in 14K or 18K gold, in yellow, white, or rose gold.

Can the diamonds on Sonder be customized?
Yes! Stone size, shape, and cut can be adjusted upon request for a fully personalized engagement ring.

Inquire about bespoke

How long does it take to receive a made-to-order Sonder ring?
Each ring is made to order in your ring size and gold color. Current production timelines depend on your customization and are available upon inquiry.

Have a question?

Visit the full FAQ's page to see if I've already answered it for you.

Contact

Need help choosing?

Do not hesitate to contact me with any questions you have!

I am reachable by chat messages, and email, I usually answer within a few hours or at the latest same day.

Chat: To start a chat click here

Email: To send me an email click here

Visit the FAQ's page to see if I've already answered it for you.

Ethically Sourced

Conflict-free diamonds, responsibly mined gemstones, recycled gold

Handmade With Care

Every piece shaped by hand, in my Israeli studio

Made Just for You

Custom designs, engravings, and one-of-a-kind pieces

Meet your designer

Woman owned. Master crafted.
Hundreds of stories.


Goldsmith, designer and the creative force behind every piece in this shop.

Every design is shaped by hand in Sivan's studio, in solid gold, with the kind of care and precision

that only comes from a maker who knows every stone, every curve, every story.

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Looking for something custom?

If the perfect gift doesn't exist yet, we'll make it.
Tell me the story - a name, a date, a memory, and I'll shape it into gold
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Every piece you’ve just seen was made by hand, in solid gold, with a level of care that doesn’t scale.No mass production. No shortcuts.Just time, precision, and meaning you can actually feel when you wear it.

Made to be worn. Meant to stay.

Every piece you've just seen was made by hand, in solid gold, with a level of care that doesn't scale. No mass production. No shortcuts. Just time, precision, and meaning you can feel when you wear it.

Crafted in 14k or 18k solid gold, designed for everyday wear - and for years to come.

Solid Gold. Made to Last.

Every piece is crafted in solid 14K or 18K gold - never plated, never filled.

Because jewelry that carries meaning deserves to last as long as the story behind it.

Conflict-free diamonds, responsibly mined gemstones, and solid gold you can feel good about wearing. Because beautiful jewelry should never come at someone else's expense.

Made For You. Made With You.

Beyond the collection, there's always the piece that doesn't exist yet. Share your idea, your name, your memory - and together we'll shape it into gold. Custom work is where the story becomes yours alone.