Toi et Moi Rings

Two Stones. One Story.

Toi et moi - French for "you and me" - is a ring design that sets two distinct stones side by side on a single band, each one whole, each one shining in its own way.

In my studio, I never wanted to repeat it - I wanted to reimagine it. 

Every toi et moi ring in this collection is designed and handcrafted in solid gold by Sivan Lotan in Israel, made one at a time.

A Toi et Moi Ring, Reimagined

In this collection, the two stones don't simply sit beside each other. They lean toward one another. A pear-cut diamond wrapped in a halo curling toward its companion. A blue sapphire heart resting against a pear diamond, close enough to touch. A cluster of diamonds gathered like a bouquet beside a single luminous green stone.

Each two-stone ring holds two presences - different in shape, in color, sometimes in character - and lets them belong to each other without losing themselves. Because that's what love actually looks like. Not two people becoming the same. Two people choosing to stand together, exactly as they are.

Your Two Stones

Some rings in this collection pair diamond with diamond. Others bring in sapphire, or a stone chosen for its meaning to you. Whether you're searching for a toi et moi engagement ring or a piece that marks two lives already intertwined, if you see two stones in your mind that aren't here yet - that's where the most beautiful rings begin.

You. Me. And everything we become side by side.

4 products

Elara Green Toi et Moi diamond and sapphire engagement ring

Elara Green | Diamond & Green Sapphire Toi et Moi Ring
from $3,900.00
from $3,900.00
Diamond Engagement Ring, Two Stone Diamond Ring, Salt and Pepper Diamond ring, Moi Et Toi Ring, 14K Diamond Gold Ring

Salt & Pepper Diamond ring, Two-Stone Ring
from $990.00
from $990.00
Sonder_Toi_and_Moi_ring_-_Two_pear_diamond_engagement_ring

Sonder | Toi et Moi Diamond Ring
from $4,900.00
from $4,900.00
Moi Et Toi Labradorite and Raw Gray Diamond Ring - OOAK Ring

Moi Et Toi Labradorite and Raw Gray Diamond Ring - OOAK Ring
$1,190.00
$1,190.00

Ethically Sourced

Conflict-free diamonds, responsibly mined gemstones, recycled gold

Handmade With Care

Every piece shaped by hand, in my Israeli studio

Made Just for You

Custom designs, engravings, and one-of-a-kind pieces

FAQs about Toi et Moi Rings

What is a toi et moi ring?

A toi et moi ring ("you and me" in French) features two distinct stones set side by side on one band, symbolizing two people in a relationship. The style dates back to the 18th century - Napoleon proposed to Joséphine with one.

What makes Sivan Lotan's toi et moi rings different?

Rather than placing two stones rigidly beside each other, each design lets the stones lean toward one another - a halo curling toward its companion, a heart resting against a pear. Every ring is handcrafted in solid gold in Israel, one at a time, and ships free worldwide.

Can a toi et moi ring be an engagement ring?

Yes. Toi et moi is one of the most meaningful engagement ring styles because the two stones represent the couple themselves. Many couples also choose it for anniversaries or vow renewals.

Can I choose my own stone combination?

Yes. Any pairing - diamond, sapphire, a birthstone, a stone with personal meaning - can be custom-made.

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Every piece you’ve just seen was made by hand, in solid gold, with a level of care that doesn’t scale.No mass production. No shortcuts.Just time, precision, and meaning you can actually feel when you wear it.

Made to be worn. Meant to stay.

Every piece you've just seen was made by hand, in solid gold, with a level of care that doesn't scale. No mass production. No shortcuts. Just time, precision, and meaning you can feel when you wear it.

Crafted in 14k or 18k solid gold, designed for everyday wear - and for years to come.

Solid Gold. Made to Last.

Every piece is crafted in solid 14K or 18K gold - never plated, never filled.

Because jewelry that carries meaning deserves to last as long as the story behind it.

Conflict-free diamonds, responsibly mined gemstones, and solid gold you can feel good about wearing. Because beautiful jewelry should never come at someone else's expense.

Made For You. Made With You.

Beyond the collection, there's always the piece that doesn't exist yet. Share your idea, your name, your memory - and together we'll shape it into gold. Custom work is where the story becomes yours alone.